A person secretly shoots an arrow to hurt
another person(暗箭傷人)
During the Song Dynasty in China, there was
a scholar named Liu Yan who wrote a book that mainly recorded some of his
life's insights.
A small part of the book is as follows
We should not criticise others behind their
backs. This behaviour is like a person secretly shooting an arrow to hurt
another person.
A sneak attack on someone when he is
unprepared can cause great harm to that person, and the person who is attacked
will feel deep resentment towards the attacker.
I will use the example of war to illustrate
what I have said above.
Two armies face each other on the
battlefield and the two armies officially fight at an agreed time. In this fair
situation, the losing side will review its own tactics and fighting skills and
not hold grudges against the winning side.
We should cultivate ourselves to become
wise and morally noble people. We should not criticise others behind their
backs, and we should not slander others behind their backs.
When we see the shortcomings of others, we
should openly offer our sincere suggestions to them.
The literal translation of this saying is
to shoot an arrow secretly to hurt someone.
This saying is used to describe a person
who secretly hurts another person.
Dear friends, what inspiration or thoughts
do you have after listening to this story?
Have you ever been secretly hurt by others?
When you see the shortcomings of others, do you know how to use wise words to
remind them?
I hope this story can give you some new
insights.
暗箭傷人(A person secretly shoots an arrow to
hurt another person)
中國的宋王朝有一個名字叫做劉炎的學者，他寫了一本書，這本書中主要紀錄了一些他的生活感悟。
這本書中有一小段的內容如下。
我們不應該在別人的背後去批評與別人，這種行為就像是一個人偷偷射箭去射傷另一個人一樣。
在別人沒有防備的時候的偷襲別人會造成別人很大的傷害，被偷襲的這個人對偷襲者的怨恨也會非常的深。
我以戰爭為例子深入說明我上面所說的這段話。
兩支軍隊在戰場上對陣，這兩支軍隊在約定好的時間正式交戰，在這種公正的情況下，失敗的一方會檢討自己的戰術與戰技不夠好，失敗的一方不會怨恨戰勝的一方。
我們要培養自己成為一個有智慧且品德高尚的人，我們不應該在別人背後批評他人，我們更不應該再偷偷地中傷別人。
我們在看到別人的缺點時，我們應該要公開地向對方提出我們真摯的建議。
這句成語直接翻譯的意思是偷偷射箭去射傷別人。
這句成語被用來形容一個人暗中去傷害另外一個人。
親愛的朋友，你聽完這個故事有怎樣的啟發或有怎樣的想法呢。
你是否曾經被別人暗中中傷過呢?你看到別人的缺點時，你懂得怎樣用智慧的話語去提醒別人嗎?
我期待這故事能讓你產生一些新的收穫。
出處為宋-劉炎-邇言-卷6-20條